1-takes things very personal. they are very sensitive. they know its good but it still hurts what should they do?
2- friend has very controling parents and restrict her. does she have the right to push her to disobey her parents and live her life or not
3- thank you from question # 178
4- why cant proffessionals share some of their basic personal life?
5-I want to be an eisha kesheira and do everything that my husband wants. yet he isnt happy. and i get headaches why?
6- I worked for 10 years as an employee. i want to open my company. any suggestions? do i just invest in the first thing that comes my way?
7- why is it that parents are so dependent on their children? they call them all the time after the wedding. they say why dont you call? dont you love us anymore?
8- I work so hard to pay for the rent but it doesnt cover all the expenses. i want my husband to go to work but i also want him to learn what do it do?
9- I am not accepted in any highschools because a girls made up lies about me. i am so angry at them. what do i do?
10- I had a very hard year. I am now in a bungalow colony. everyone is telling me that if my kids are in camp and daycamp i can volunteer for a chesed. i want to but i also need a break. what do i do?
11- what are real emotions and what are false emotions. example crying by davening is good or not?
12-a follow up call from a girl that wasnt in highschool becasue girls ratted on her, and a substitute that used some ideas from the phoneline and how he used it the last two weeks of daycamp
13- a person in their mid 20 comes from a disfunctional past and was bullied in yeshiva and now in marriage counseling. how does his past effect his present
14- Grandmother that her dausghter seperated and moved into her house with her childe that is the same age as her son. the son is jealous that the nephew is getting more love and gifts and leinient then him. what should she do. she feels bad for her grandson
15- The chilld from Kiryas Yoel that was missing brought up her fears from Leiby Kletsky ztl. she cant sleep. what should she do?
16- 15 cancer survivors get offense why people call it yena machla. like its a terrible stigma. can mw please explain why dont you just call it cancer
17- son going to a therapist and he is getting better and better everywhere except at home. why? what can she do?
18- Sending a todler the youngest to playgroup and 1-she will miss the time that she spent with her (and listen to mw programs when she walks with her). 2- she makes sure that they eat healthy and nutritions
19- a bucher in yeshiva he is very smart and interested in intelegent stuff not like the regular conversations. he feels alone. he helps the weaker boys but he doesnt have real friends
20- why is it sometimes that when i speak my emotions i feel angrier and sometimes when i speak the emotions i feel great?
21- how do i send my spouse to therapy?
22- I suffered from social anxiety for a few years and now a brother of mine called me a liar a year ago. since then i notice how my whole family isnt trusting me anymore. what can i do?
23- how do i know that i am done with therapy? will the therapist tell me? will i know on my own?
24- someone that suffers from anxiety and has doubts on every decision that he makes especially the big ones what should she do?
25- to hear a message of a bucher that took a negative trip and transformed it into a positive. how can he utilize it for the rest of his life
26- a person that is asking how to make a connection to mw as a personal friend and mw asking how to go about it?
27- to hear a thank you from europe and how to deal with that they they feel very nervous and regret everything. should i learn musser? are there books? do i need a therapist?
28- a kid broke something for $100 and the kid is so nervous about it what should they do
29- 1- a person going to therapy and they feel when they are in therapy that the therapist isnt a real person. 2- they feel they cant share everything with their therapist and they want to know if its important to get it out and what to do
30- a kid is in camp and they are afraid of they are homesick and they have kids needing to start playgroup and they are afraid to mention it because they might be afraid of separating and crying. they arents sure if they should start before succos or after. they dont want the kids to go through it twice (before succos and then again after succos)
31- a women who at her job is so afraid of making a mistake and she also notices she has so much good in her life but she cant enjoy it
32- to hear the questioin of why are poeple afraid to give compliments and what to do about it
33- a 13 year old boy that is a good boy and recently he started stuttering and repeating words by davening. is it a sign of something and should she be worried
34- follow up from q 207that the mother sent the kids to play group and now the kids are crying and the milamid says they are crying they arent ready for playgroup. what should she do
35- a small kid is afraid of all moving objects a ball etc. they know why its coming because they were almost in a car accident and now
36- is our mind connected to our physical body and can our body effect our mind
37- a 9 year old kid lied and stole. what should the parent do
38- every time his kid coughs he gets scared and he runs to the doctor for everything . what should he do?
40- a 14 year old boy that is top in the class but he blushes when people talk to him and looks at himself a lot int he mirror. is it a sign of a weak self esteem and what should the parent do
41- someone wants to know what i think about the saying in yiddish “nisht ales vos glantzed is gold” not everything that shines is gold
42- why dont therapist use to build self esteem that we are all a cheilik mialokei mimal and to build confidence from amunah and bitochim
43- a family has a 4 year old special needs kid and they fight with everyone. should they tell people or just let other find out when they realize
44- to hear a cluster of questions about good freinds that changed schools and didnt tell them before. why wouldnt they tell and how to deal with it
45- to hear 2 letters thanking me and my family that came in the mail in one day press
46- people were going to a therapist and saw results and now they dont see results anymore and they need to change. what should they do
47- parents that came home and they think they smell smoke on their linen what should they do
48- two letters of encouragement for the listeners and to mw
49- I suffer from regret. what program would you recomend and how do you suggest i get out of it
50- someone has stopped therapy and they want to know what are the signs if the will need to go back on therapy. how can they know for sure that they are done with therapy
51- A recommendation for everyone to listen to. a follow up success of july 24 of a teenager who is not in high schools because girls spread rumors about her and mw told her to stand up for herself and be pro active.
52- to hear 2 quotes that someone recommended I read on the hotline
53- to hear a complaint and a clarification that i said that a husband should go to work if they need parnusa and to leave kollel
54- what can a mother do when she knows her kid is homesick in camp and is nervous starting yeshiva and the kid doesnt bring it up
55- what can teachers do when they are nervous to start the new year
56- a wife who is married to a husband that doesnt take responsibilty and when she ignores the stuff if accumulates to a big problem. what should she do? should she take over his job when she cant and let it fall or just continue?
57- to hear the question of a yungerman that is learning with a bucher and this bucher is asking in appropriate questions. how to deal with it and not jeopardise the relationship?
58- to hear the question about a person that he has a very big secret and is it a problem if he keeps a strong secret
59- to hear a thank you letter that i recieved
60- to hear an amazing story of hashgacha protious and i verified the story that touched my heart and is giving me a warm story before rosh hashanah
61- to hear comments and texts about my response to question 232 of a women that her husband doesnt take responsibilty and she has to do every. if she lets go it will all fall apart but she cant do eveything
62- a friend that continues to bullys her at work asks her forgiveness before rosh hashona and she did the samething last year press
63- a friend that is angry at you becasue freind a said you said something bad about them and you dont remember saying it and she wont tell you who told her. what to do about it?
64- to hear some thoughts i had on rosh hashonah and an apology from mw why i didnt do a question and answer the day before rosh hashona and the day after
65- a person going to therapy and is now feeling confident and happy with themselves and they are having a hard time feeling the old fears and concerns. is it a problem and how to feel it again?
66- someone going into shiduchim. should they look into someone like them that is light and easygoing and caring, booksmart. or someone different?
67- a mother is asking her 9 year old boy is taking yoim hadin very seriously with lists of aveiris and mitzvos that he did. he is obsessed with it. is this the beginning of OCD? and what should she do?
68- to hear the question of a person that is comparing his davening all the time to last years davening and kavanah to last years
69- to hear a long text of pain and fear of yoim hadin and how to be a be more at ease
70- A brucha mw asked for this year rosh hashona yom kipur and sharing it with everyone
71- after yom kippur and a person is ok with hashem he just wants to be a bit more modern and he wants his parents to accept him. what should he do?
72- a teenager is asking mother that yells and screams all day and speaking to them is not an option what should she do
73- a teenager that is huge pain and should she keep it in like mw supposidely suggested to
74- as a teenager he suffered from severe depression and got out of it all on his own without therapy or medication. now he is happy and married with a son. he feels that something still stayed from the old times. what should he do?
75- a teenager is sure hashem hates them and their mother is sick. what should they do? how can they keep on going?
76- a sibling is leaving for overseas should they finally
77- a person that was recently diagnosed with aspergers. what is it and can they get married
78- wife married to person that has aspergers what should she do
79- bucher that changed yeshivas once and wasnt successful. he has to change now how can he do it?
80- a parent is asking their son has a great personality and carefree. he was a top boy in yeshiva. since he changed yeshivas a few years ago he isnt successful. should they change him now that he still isnt happy
81- apology from mw for not having a cell phone and for finances and not taking the emergency questions first
82- a teenager that doesnt think he has any talents
83- wife that takes medication and husband also needs to take and he doesnt want to take it because she is pressuring him. what should she do
84- to hear the sharp comment of husband being accused of having aspergers whiile the wife is too emotional
85- (from the lakewood scoop) 19 years old mother is weird embarrassing and meddles with the married siblings marriage. parents will never let her go for therapy and she needs it before she gets married what should she do?
86- comments and criticism at me (mw) for shutting my phone?
87- to be strong to do what you are doing!! you are right!! you know it!! stick to it. everyone that is giving advice is not there to take responsibility!! only the people that are responsible can you “listen” to advice
88- I have aspergers and i am divorced. what can i do without therapy?
89- more messages about shutting the phone
90- more messages that were sent in regarding shutting my phone
91- divorced guy that there is less girls to date. should he just take a girl that he heard had issues but is better or should he wait.
92—— failing student all the years and now success as teacher they are giving her older grades to teach. she doesnt trust herself. should she take the higher position or not
93- has a brother and 2 sisters not married. her birthday coming up. she is embarrassed for anyone to know its her birthday. how should she react to birthday messages that come to her
94- friend got engaged and didnt share it before but she thinkds she shared it with 2 other best friends. she cant face the kallah. what should she do?
Both yiddish and english
95- comment about q 87 that surround yourself with positive people. what happens if you tell someone no. does that make you negative. Someone is stuck on the computer and he wont listen to close family. how can you get him to listen to a “no” when its really good for him?
96- getting married shortly and has anxiety that something will happen to her parents and family members before the wedding or during the wedding. her wedding is soon. what should she do?
97- am a life coach and a ben torah and i want to know if its possible to learn 5-6 hours a day and make a parnusa when a tight parnusa today is $10,000 month?
98- a parent that 8 year old girl that is anxious that she wont know or understand in school. she needs therapy does mw have any advice?
99- we have a 15 year old son and he is over a year out of yeshiva. he refuses to continue therapy when they mention yeshiva. recently he showed an interest but he has so many conditions. what should we do? do we force him or not?
100- a person who wants to know if he should go for psychology or speech? if he goes for psychology he will be confident, know how to talk, know how to raise his children, but its hard to make a parnusah. what should he do?
101 comment about the lady who called in to the radio that her son and daughter in law dont want to come to phone.
102 is it possible that a persons metabolism can change. they are on a tight low callorie diet and its not working. how do you build up metabolism
103 I have a sister that was fired from a few jobs. what can i do to help? how do I deal with my parents when they call me to get involved and it shouldnt effect my marriage
104 what to do when someone comes collecting and he has a hard time saying no. he borrowed a hundred dollars to give him and he still feels bad. what should he do?
105 my friend is talking to me about doing a network business. she says ill be good at it. 1-how do i know if i will be good at it or not? 2- every time i discuss it with my husband he turns his head away. its a minimal investment. how do i get him to listen to me?
106 I have an 8 year old boy. one of the top in his class. he has a friend of a lower category. my son is a quiet boy and doesnt make friends easy. should i break it up or not?
107 I am now learning a behavioral system of colors to control a class. it works. I am someone that went through therapy. I know that if you dont work on emotions it doesnt last. I feel cold using that system..
108—- I am in a prominent yeshiva in second year bais medrish. I went to a therapist 4 years ago for anxiety. it helped. now it all fell apart. I cant learn or get an aliya. i tried fighting it and its getting worse. what can I do to get out of it without therapy?
109 I am a very open bucher. i have a close connection to my father but my inner feelings i cant open up to him like i do to my friends and rebbaim. what can i do to get there? what can parents do that their children will open up to them?
110- my teenage daughter needs to talk a lot. she is always on top of me. i dont have patience for her. I am wondering if she spatial. means she spaces out. does she need therapy? what type of therapy will help her?
111- I am building a business from scratch. i have a lot of ups and downs. how can i find a mentor to give me support and advice?
112- a person that is changing meds and feeling side effects, has big shulem bayis problems, the therapist is busy with her father thats like her husband. husband is cheap,never home, criticizes. what should she do?
113- a 7.5 year old boy that doesnt have friends he learns a whole time. when the rebbe pushes him to make friends he gets nervous and he wont open up to his parents. what should they do?
114- my 9.5 year old can get very nervous if you tell him no and through a tantrum. he can pull off the table cloth while we are sitting there. he can hit us and through toys across the room. is this age appropriate or not?
115- follow up messages. from 114
116- a teacher and mother that is happy with what she is doing at home and teaching. she finds that she needs something new in her life. is that a positive or a negative.
117- A mother that was severely depressed for 10 years and now she is on medication and her life is back to normal. she feels she has shonah reshoina again. he issues is that family members remember she was crying and yelling. how to deal with that.
118- the letter of a women that since she heard the program her marriage is now unsure and less confident how to deal with her situation. how does she get more confident
119- my kids are good hearted angels in school and at home they are animals. why is it so? what can I do different?
120-a teenager that has a great teacher that pushes her to do more then she can and she is successful.
121- I am currently going to a therapist he says that my negative thinking is whats causing me to be depressed and not do anything. how can my thinking cause that?
122- to hear some impossible solutions of family members that have issues and not wanting to go for help. what should the family members do?
123- I know your not a rov but i am curious of your answer. you give me so much inspiration and hope. please can you answer my question. their situation is so dire. I have issue with my kids. I have difficulty in business. I have difficulties with my shulem bayis. Its now chanakah. what hope can I have when I light the minorah?
124- On your program you mentioned adult adhd. can you explain if you are born with it? how can they manage all the years while having it? how can it be that at least the parents didnt notice it?some of what you said matches what my husband has. he seems to be getting more intense does that make sense?
125- when are things ocd in cleanliness or anxiety at the normal stuff? when is it diagnosable and when not?
126- a teenager that made a best friend in camp and she talks to much. she was afraid that she will lose this friend. she is also afraid that she said to much. how does she deal with it?
127- an email of a person that is traumatised by chanakah experiences in their parents home and how it still affects them. how they started getting out of it
128- a mother is asking that her son is married for 2 years and he developed certain issues. they went from the doctor to the neurologist that told them their son has ocd. how to tell it to him. will he need medication and should you tell the daughter in law or not?
129- A 20 year old bucher has Body dismorphic disorder. he has tried to kill himself 2 years ago. he is under a lot of pain. he is asking what is the next step that he should do?
130- a girl that went through serious medical condition as a kid and and early teen. she cant enjoy simple mundane conversations. is it important to be able to talk mundane stuff? how do I learn it?
131- a personal question. I am going to a top therapist. we hired a life coach to help out with technical stuff. since she got involved things got worse. after two weeks we fired her. now she is badmouthing me and the therapist about how bad i am doing. why is she so mean? why is she acting like a baby?
132- a message for #128. a successful story of a person that shared with his wife his OCD issue and it was a relief for them both. she is begging people to share with their spouses. it will bring them closer.
133- in regards to question 123 of a women that her husband is not working and she is tight with money. this question is that her husband borrowed from family to invest it went sour. now he doesnt go to shul and outside. she asked someone for help and her husband found out. he is furious. its her fault. what should she do?
134- a rebbe that he has an 11 year old student that has to be perfect all over. if he gets a 99 he gets hysterical. how can he teach him not to be a perfectionist?
135- I have a husband that based on what you said has ADD. he refuses to take medication. he sais “this is my nature” this isnt communism. i have a choice. what should she do?
136- a person had ocd and anxiety. after a year of therapy and medication. the ocd adn anxiety left. a long time after he had a kid and the ocd came back. tharapy without medication helped. now recently anxiety came back. why is it happening? why is it coming back?
137- A teacher and a mother are asking a child/student is a perfectionist. how do you calm it down? why are they like this? does this get better with years?
138- a mother that her 12 year old daughter has a “friend” that moved on to the block and she follows her allover. both in school and at home. even the teachers see its to much. what do you do that wont hurt the girl?
139-I heard your program with Rabbi Doctor Twerski. he mentioned the importance of being able to say “I love you, Thank you, Im sorry” I am married for 12 years and have 7 children and still not able to say it. can you give me a tip how to learn?
140- someone that is having being to much hanaoa of doing mitzvos. he is concerned that this isnt what hashem wants. is this ocd or not?
141-how do i help by 14 year old son to have more hasmoda in his learning and achieve more
142-I am an askin. I volunteer all the time to organizations. my issue is that i only enjoy life when there is a rush. i know that you have to learn to enjoy the peace. i am just not feeling it. If this is my nature will I always struggle? can I be helped?
143- a person that sent a poam of his pain and a speech that is his encouragement.
144- I want to become a therapist. what is the first step?
145- her 4 year old son asked her “mommy when will you be nifter? how do I answer that?
146- can you discuss alcohol addiction? my husband has to take a full cup of alcohol when he comes home from work and many times in the morning before work. is that called an addict? I begged him to stop and he wont. what do I do?
147- my daughter has a friend that was just nifter from cancer. she is afraid that i will die of it. I also have cancer. how can i reassure her when i dont know myself if i will live or not?
148- I am from overseas and im coming in for my sisters wedding. My mother suffers from a mental illness and is very controlling. what can i do to plan it out that it should be a successful trip?
149-To hear how to deal with the anxiety and the fear of Rabbi Nuchem Stark. Its similar to the Leiby Kletzky tragedy.
150-I have a brother that helped me with yeshivas getting chavrusis. , getting the training for the job, finding a job, he makes me feel guilty if i dont call or do things he doesnt approve. i am feeling guilty and trapped. what can I do?
151— a cancer survivor is taking their annual scan. they are afraid of what will happen if it comes back. they are having nightmares. what do I suggest?
152- a girl that weighs 215 pounds and she wants to know if she should try hypnosis or maybe therapy. what do i suggest?
153- bvas mitzvah thougths for those that are interested.
154- a 19 year old girl who recently finished school and i was diagnosed with bi polar.
155- an apology from mw and a letter of chizuk from a caller/listener for mw
156-a lady that washes her hand after everything because she is afraid of germs that will cause her a stomach virus. is this OCD?
157-A person that is Bi Polar and isnt feeling things. they arent laughing or crying. plus therapy is stressing them out. should they stop? and is this normal?
158- a mother has 10 year old twins. she talks to them in a serious tone at bedtime so they should go to sleep. they say I am in a bad mood. I am not. I do i explain to them that i am not in a bad mood?
159- a grown man that has a very close friend that they were able to discuss everything. lately he is distant and the conversations are shallow. i cant speak to him. what do i do?
160- I am 25 y/o. i went to my brother for shabbos. his kids were fighting and i told them to stop. my brother told me that i am too tense. isnt it normal to tell children to stop fighting. is there something wrong with me or with him?
161- A teenager thats mother has stage 4 cancer and will never survive and her grades are falling and teachers are angry at her. she is afraid to open up. what should she do?
162- a women that the family financials are dire. she made a sign with hashem if she should go to work and it came out to do it. now she feels she isnt the best mother as she was. should she drop it or not?
163- mother asking about her teenage daughter that is obese. her daughter wants to take the extreme diet pills or do the surgery of the band. her pediatrician doesnt like the idea. what should she do?
164- A lady that is married for over 17 years and her husband is very critical to their oldest child. she asks him to speak nicer but he tells her if you would be more strict i wouldnt have to be so strict. what should she do?
165- A person that is strongly depressed and doesnt know why. is there any uplifting message of chizuk I can give them?
166- A chusen that got married and moved to an area that he doesnt know anyone. he cant connect beyond the basic Hi, how are you. is there any advice for him to connect to people?
167- a 17 year old girl that who has social anxiety, means she turns red and gets very embarrassed. she went to 3 therapist for 2 months each and is on medication for a year. should she go to a fourth therapist? if she is on medication how will she get off it?
168- sisters are asking that they have a sister that is tough and wont help out. how can they protect themselves when not to get hurt from the insults? how can they answer her back in a way to stop her negative behaviors?
169- to hear the feedback of last question. for and against the suggestion that i had for the sisters that they have a sister that doesnt offer to help and that she is sharp to them. to hear the feedback press
170- a mother that has two teenage daughters. the older daughter has a disability. should they hold back the younger one from doing tasks that the older one cant do or not?
171-a father that his teenage son is doing behaviors the family doesnt permit. he knows his mother knows about it but doesn know that his father knows of it. should the father tell him that he knows or let him think he doesnt and still have that extra respect to his father
172- a person that is on a diet for 3 weeks and they are having major cravings. they also went on the scale and didnt lose any weight this past week. they dont know why. what does mw suggest?
173-of a person that doesnt have any support of the parents and a husband that is going through huge issues. her only support was a therapist that was helping her for 3 years and now he dropped her too. how can she go on?
174- for the follow response from 172 about the diet and a very warm and emotional words of chizuk for #173 of a person that has recently gone through the being dropped from a therapist and not having parents and husband for support. press …
175- to hear chizuk from someone that had stress about dieting a secret that helped them lose weight and enjoy the life.
176-about a grandfather that is 90 plus and he is hearing voices in his head that people want to kill him. his daughter is putting up signs saying its not true. he is getting more agitated. what therapy should they do for him? will hypnosis help?
177- we have two positive letters. one is from question 164 who asked about her husband that is very good to her but very critical to there 16 year old son. what should she do and my answer was not to her liking. but it worked. second is a message of dont give up.
178- positive letter from a client
179- It is 3:08 am. I have a hard time falling asleep at night. when i lay down i get energized from my thoughts. they come racing in. i had this problem from a young girl.
180—- a wife that is asking if her husband has aspergers if he doesnt give emotions. and feedback from q 172 and 174 about the scale
181- someone has signed up to a multi level marketing system and there parents are against it. they signed up anyhow. now their parents and giving them negative comments and attitude. how do they deal with it?
182– helping relative depressed. to get husband and parents to get them to therapy
183-awareness thougth will only need one session then 8 now they see they will need a lot more
184- trip vacation- take a half hour off once in two weeks to feel nature. most of my clients would feel better
185- physical touch is it important and why do it crave it so much if i am an adult?
186- going to a therapist for 4 years for confidence and self esteem. is it normal to go for that long?
187- Someone in the late 20’s is afraid of authority. they are afraid to say anything when there parents, in laws bosses or directors come in. what should they do?
188- thoughts about tanis esther and teenager whose mother was diagnosed with a tumor. they dont know if its cancerous or if there is a survival or treatment options. she cant get her mind out of it
190- a rebbe that is teaching in an irreligious school. the kids come from dysfunctional homes. they chutzpa is terrible. there is one particular kid that is from a very troubled past. he is very misbehaved. what can we do to help him and change his behaviors?
191- her father hates her husband. he doesnt hide it. he tells it to everyone. family and friends. when they got married it effected her shulem bayis now its better. her problem is when she goes to her parents house for yom tov she gets looks down at him. what can she do?
192- follow up 2 letters to 191 that one is a happy one and one is a sad ending. all is about how parents involvement affected their shulem bayis.
193 – why dosnt mw discuss the poisen of Prozac. since shabsi tzvi there wasnt such an issue in klal yisroel as bad as medication
194- follow up messages from question 193. response to the writer that says .
195- is a wife allowed to ask her husband for compliments but she doesnt want to look like a fool asking
196- a person that is helping kids off the derech and he is up late at night. how does he balance that with taking care of his family
197- question from a 16 year old girl that a classmate is anorexic and tense and gives speeches where she herself isnt good at. what should she do?
198- a mother of a 10 year old girl that cries when she has to go to school because she is afraid to leave her mother. if she has to go to a close relative for a few days she can cry in the bathroom for hours. what can she do to heal her separation anxiety
199- a milamid is asking what to do about a 9 year old boy that 1- cant do the smallest thing like take an envelope from one place to the next. 2- wont concentrate in learning to get the gimurah right. he will fight you if you say he said it wrong. what do you do?
200- two questions that are asked. a friend that confides in her how depressed she is. she cant handle it anymore. a second question. the family went through a trauma and family members are calling to unload and they are getting down after. what should they do?
201- a person that is an emotional person and his spouse gets nervous and can lower his mood for a few hours. what can he do to stay strong?
202-follow up messages from #61201. wives that responded its because the husband isnt listening to them. why doesnt he change.
203- an adult that found that they are not able to express their thoughts properly in words. this is a new situation. they recently went through a trauma. is it possible that it effected their speech? do they need a speech therapist
204— a person that is going for therapy and they feel angry and depressed after the session. thoughts of why me? any tools how to see therapy different.
205- feedback from 3 people about #204
206- thoughts about pesach
207- how to manage chal hamoed when he wants one point and his wife wants another. then the kids want a complete third tasks. how to work it out?
208- questions comments about how hard yom tov pesach becasue of the tension and nerves are there. and how to manage the kid that is tense on pesach. what we can do to create
209— positive letter from right before pesach.
210- a parent of an 8 year old boy who throws tantrums and can even put himself in harms way when wants something. is it normal and is there anything they can do to stop it?
211-a wife wants to know if she is better in a certain job then her husband should she step in and take care of it or not
212- a women that is married for 20 years and her husband is used to the stress and tension before. she is calm and easy. how can she explain to him to accept her calm way? this is a general question for every marriage
213- a person that went for therapy for a year before they got married for pressures in the house. now she feels a big pressure again. she needs to go to the therapist. how can she tell her husband that she needs a therapist?
214- a wife whom her husband has a personality disorder, ocd. adhd, and anxiety. he doesnt want to continue marital therapy. what should she do? he likes mw and will consider going to you for therapy
215- a bucher saying that his life has improved by learning the mw tool of emotion. we share some more understanding why it works
216- 2 questions. a mother of a 9 year old boy that he has anger management issues and he acts immature. a second question is that a mother has a 3 year old kid that has many toys and is very clingy to her. what can she do to make him play by himself?
217- 2 teachers are asking what can they do when they have a student that is turning quiet because there parent is not well?
218- a person that wishes she can be her therapist daughter. she can get all her unconditional love of 45 minute session all the time. what should she do?
219- a person wants to know if she should apologize to a friend for snobbing her out during high school or by apologising now a few years later it will re hurt the old pain?
220- a wife that has wonderful shulem bayi and good communication with her husband just her moods are intertwined with her husbands. that means that when he is in a good mood she is in a good mood and when she is in a bad mood she gets in a bad mood. is this healthy? how can she develope her own mood?
221-a friend that is helping someone and its getting to draining. how can she create her space without hurting her friend?
222-were taking 2 questions. one of a person before marriage and another of a person 6 years after marriage. notice issues dont go away.
223-critic and a question that a person is going to a competent therapist but it still didnt click exactly and not to suggest going to another therapist.
224- a husband that is very sensitive and wanted gets into rage. what can the wife do for herself and for her husband
225- follow up to question 224
226— thoughts about shvous
227- thank yous from listeners and clients
228- what can a wife do to encourage her husband when he gets nervous and tense when he does tasks and it takes longer than he expected or didnt work out.
229- a girl that has a job and father needs the money. she asked to save it for her wedding but now the family is calling her cold.
230- an 18 year old person is asking should they go on medication to survive their negative emotional abusive house or should they leave the house and not take medication?
231- A boy is being read to her parents. he is the top boy in yeshiva. a few years ago he had taken medication because he had to be the best. her parents are going down to meet the doctor. should she look further into it or not?
232- to hear the messages pro and con to my advice the previous messages about girl that is being read a shidduch that the boy pushed himself to be the best and was put on medication. now he is off it. what should she do?
233- to hear 2 follow up comments about this saga with dating someone that has taken medication when they were a teenager press…
234- a bucher that is in the yeshiva a zman and still doesnt have friends and is now doubting if he was confident or able to speak up. this question is also helpful to people going up now to the country and wanting to be the best friends of everyone right away.
235- a 14 year old person that lost their mother at 10 and father is very critical and not emotional. they get blamed all the time. what should they do?
236- feedback from #229 about a girl that is working to save for her wedding yet her father is out of a job and needs her money for food what should she do?
237- a teenage boy who had close friend and then the didnt have what to talk about. now they are fighting all the time. to hear why this is so important for the bungalow colony time and for camp press
238—boys that were rachmonu nitzlun killed by animals
239- sister, yurtzeit emotions. question of someone that has a mother that doesnt let her express emotions. one girl triggered her that looked like her mother. she gave it all out on her. now she feels guilty. is this normal
240-3 questions of ASAP a person that is going to have surgery and they have to go to their parents. but its so negative what do they do? a 12 year old that has lots of health fears. what do they do asap. a kid that the parents put others needs ahead of themselves. then they let out the nerves on the kids. what can they do?
241- a teenager is asking they have confidence issues because they are only secure around family and friends. but in new people she is afraid and shuts down. what can she do? this is important to everyone. (what does confident mean)
242- gratitude messages and in my life aday before my fathers yurtzeit
243- thoughts on my fathers yurtzeit
244— read letters of people that did stuff lielu nishmas my father
245- a person that went through a tough time. they miss the tough person and those emotions. are they normal?
246- someone that has a minor issue that cant make phone calls. ex doctors appt and grocery. is it an issue and how can they get help fi they cant hurt
247- a bucher is 7 years in a yeshivah. he is now going to eretz yisroal. he is settled in this place. what can he do to make the transition easier? why is this important for all of us to learn master
248- a teenager that went to therapy while her mother was sick for nightmares and anxiety but it didnt help. now that her mother was nifter a teacher is asking her to continue. should she or not?
249- a person that is asking that they want to go to sleep and wake up after yom tov. the person is also saying that they are missing the intensity of being close to hashem. what is the hidden lesson mw learned from this persons question
250- a grandson is asking that his 83 year old grandfather is in critical condition. the family isnt telling his grandmother the truth. she is asking whats happening with zeidy. i dont have a good feeling about him. should he tell her or not?
251- a person that goes to therapy and they are in huge pain during the process. any suggestions to ease the pain? why the awareness is important for people.
252- a 17 year old girl that just started therapy because her mother doesnt talk to her 2 married siblings. she is in therapy already 6 sessions and doesnt see any changes. what should she do?
253- 4 messages of thanks and some points that every person can take from it
254- a person that is going to therapy and its working. he can daven and learn. the only problem is that he is finding himself to calm. is it normal and should he continue or not
255- to hear a beautiful poem of person that is going into their deepest darkest pain in therapy and a tefilah to hashem. we are not alone. lets learn and face our issues
256- a 22 year old girl that isnt engaged yet and everyone is married. is there any advice and why the solution its important for everyone
257- a letter of thank you and a question about a mother that took a 400 parenting course and read a lot of books but her knee jerk reaction is still to shout like her mother.
258- two messages of thank you and a question of a person that wakes up of nightmares every night with no reason or pertaining to the days events. what should they do?
259- a thank you letter and a validation for taking the question of a labidaga yosim and a question that he has a sister in shuduchim and feels that the he has a very good friend that would be a good shidduch. he is just afraid of him finding out about his family.
260- mother was sick for two years and now that mother is nifter she cant daven to hashem. how can she talk to the person that gave her all this pain? this question is not necessarily a hashkofah sheila but of pain..
261- a letter of thank you from a client and a person sharing their experience of having a parent that has gone through the cancer with emotional therapy and without therapy how it looks like.
262–17 year old teen that is in therapy and the therapist asked parents to join. husband doesnt want to and is causing son to doubt therapy. what should she do?
263-a person that has gone for therapy for 3 sessions and now they cant bury and hide the painful emotions as in the past. what should they do?
264- a husband cant keep a job for more 3 months after several jobs the wife suggested to move cities. husband asked the rov and suggested that she go for therapy. what therapy therapy does she need and why arent they focusing on his issues?
265- a person asking that adults that have a lot of pain in them that people resent them now started out very optimistic in life. what can they do now that they are young to make sure they stay positive and optimistic in the future reality
266- in the colony every women has their chair in the circle. someone was sitting in her chair what should she do? if she tells the person to stand up then she will feel bad for doing it. but if she doesnt say anything. she wont be able to stay and have to leave. this question is important for everyone